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You're not here to become more confident

You're here because an old identity is still shaping how you show up—

Even though you've outgrown it.

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You're capable. Proven. Trusted.​

And yet, there's a difference between who you are

and how fully you allow yourself to be seen.

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That gap isn't a flaw.​

It's the space between an expired identity

and the Future Self that's ready to step forward.

 

Hi, I'm Sheila 

I help people release their old story and outdated identity so their Future Self can emerge—

allowing them to show up with presence, power, and own the room.

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The Real Problem

At some point, every person begins living from an identity that no longer fits. 

Not because you lack skill, confidence, or capability—but because an old story is still shaping how you show up. 

 

It might sound like:

"I'm not ready."

"I don't want to be too much."

"I don't know how."

"This is too much for me."

"I'm not strong enough."

 

Or it might show up quietly—as self-doubt, hesitation, over-responsibility, or a sense of separation between who you are and how fully you allow yourself to be seen.

 

This is not a confidence issue.

It's an identity that has reached its expiration date.

And your Future Self is waiting beneath it.

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The Shift:

These identities were never meant to be permanent.

They were strategies. And strategies that once protected you can eventually limit you.

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Every expansion and meaningful change in my life required this shift first:

I stopped asking "How do I fix it?"

And I started asking "Who do I need to be now?"
 

Not because I had a better plan.

But because I aliged with my future self

instead of my past identity.

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It's about releasing the stories that quietly shaped how you learned to show up.

When the old identity loosens its grip, presence emerges.

Power becomes available.

You authority becomes felt—not performed.

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My Work

I work with people who are done performing confidence—and ready to embody it. 

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From hesitation to self-trust

From managing the room to owning it.

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This work isn't about tactics or surface-level confidence.

It's identity-level transformation.

    

Presence & Power™

Presence & Power™ isn't about fixing yourself. 

It's about releasing who you're not.

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This is my signature six-session 1:1 coaching experience designed to help you let go of the identity that keeps you small and fully inhabit the one that matches your next level.

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Presence isn't something you build.

Power isn't something you earn.

They're what remain when the old story falls away.

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Your Future Self doesn't need to be created—it emerges naturaly once the old identity releases its grip.

 

Together, we move through three transformative stages: 

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Reframe —See Yourself Clearly

• Identify the beliefs and patterns and old stories that have been guiding your life instead of your Future Self.

• Understand your triggers and automatic reactions so you can respond from grounded presence.

• Release the need for outside approval and reconnect with your natural worth.

• Reclaim your confidence that flows naturally from who you are, not from performance.

 

Rewrite — Step Into Your New Story

• Define who your Future Self is and begin stepping fully into that version of you.

• Shift the story that's says "I'm not enough" into one that empowers your next level.

• Craft the identity that aligns with your vision, values, and presence.

• Align your daily choices and actions with your new identity so it becomes effortless.

 

Reclaim — Own the Room

• Step into your voice fully and speak with clarity and authority.

• Hold boundaries confidently, without guilt or hesitation.

• Take up space unapologetically, commanding attention naturally.

• Lead from grounded presence, inner power, and Future Self alignment.​​

    

Imagine ...

→You trust your voice— even in the moments you used to shrink ​

→You feel grounded, not reactive

→You walk into opportunities without second-guessing

→You stop looking for validation and start standing in your worth

→You rise into the version of yourself you've been craving​​​​​​

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If you're done negotiating with an outdated version of yourself

Presence & Power™ is where the shift becomes real.

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​​​Let's begin.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

READY TO OWN THE ROOM? 

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